I like the idea of annoymous ramblings. I am sure my close friends will appreciate this technology too if it means their ears get less of a bashing than they have done recently. Have been, and continue to struggle through a multitude of personal dilemas these last few months which have affected me more significantly that I ever deemed possible. A week in Greece with my monkey of a daughter and two of my friends is eagerly awaited. I will then return refreshed and ready to hold my head up high and face my self-created mess. Moral learnt: avoid falling in love with your next door neighbour. Especially if you live in a terrace. http://www.blog.co.uk/main/img/smilies/graybigeek.gif